On Saturday 2 000 people came together and staged a SlutWalk in Cape Town.
I only found out about it on Thursday,so I was a bit of a Jane-come-lately to the idea.
The more I find out about this campaign/project the more I like it. I have spent a small portion of my night googling and stalking a few people on Facebook.
I was really sad that I had not known about it earlier. At the very least I could tell the two people who read my blog about it.
They in turn could have worn their underwear and we could have hooked up. It would have been awesome.
The original Slutwalk organiser saw it as a movement against “victim-blaming” and it originated after a police officer in Canada told a group of women that they should stop “dressing like sluts” to avoid getting raped.
These parades/demonstrations/walks are about sending a powerful message.
That women are judged as the cause of the crime IF RAPED BECAUSE OF WHAT THEY WORE.
I seldom use this phrase. But I think I have been saving it for a special occassion. How fked up is that shit?
I will confess to being one of the ignorant masses. When I see a scantily clad female, the little voice in my head goes: “Yep, she is asking for it!” I am a girl and that is the first message that pops in to my head.
How did I get programmed to think that if a girl or a woman chooses an article of clothing from her wardrobe, and she gets raped, then it is her fault?
How shocking is my mental “default stance?”
I dress my children conservatively so they “do not become targets of rape or p.aed.ophil.es.”
I raise my eyebrow when I see a young girl dressed in such a way that she looks sexually appealing. Because my internal message goes “she is asking for it!”
Who gets to decide what provocative is? Who gets to decide the line between “the right dress” and “the wrong dress?” Who gets to be the clothing police? And who gets to measure the “range” for what is acceptable?
What if it is Riaan Cruywagen and Patricia Lewis and they become the committe who decides?
I think this concept speaks volumes about the society we are in.
I really hope that this walk takes place next year.
As mothers and women who read this blog, you will consider taking part, and dragging your children along with you.
<Then you have to sit and start the entire conversation about what a slut is, and that alone must be a mine-field, but you have a year to work that skillfully into conversation. I am also not sure how that is going to go down when the pre-school teacher asks Johnny if he did anything interesting this weekend.>
These are some amazing images from the walk taken by the über talented Tarjei Langeland.
If you are interested in finding out more about this insanely brilliant movement, join them on Facebook.
Excellent article here on the SlutWalk and why you should do it (or should’ve done it, in my case)