I love your children’s birthday parties, but I truly do not enjoy the planning and co-ordination that goes into a birthday party for my children.
I would love for them to have a truly spectacular birthday party.
I would love it more if I have absolutely nothing to do with the planning, and just come as a guest. I want to be rich enough to employ a party planner, and then give them a large wad of cash, some basics outlines and walk away from the entire matter.
For one, I procrastinate.
I do not get all pinterest and make a huge album of great ideas for birthday parties.
I also think that kid’s birthday parties have lost touch with reality – moms go all out to prove they can throw the best party, either to indicate how much they love their child or to show up moms who cannot order a Happy Meal without forgetting the toy.
It is just all gone on so overboard. The end result is that you also need to up your game or your party just looks like 2 cupcakes and a cheap candle!!
I barely get in under the wire to book a suitable venue and order a cake on the right day.
Then as I think I am getting some sort of momentum, I put together the invites, and this is about the part where I truly lose what is left of my very delicate mind, and my very thin level of ability to like other people.
What the helvetica is it about parents (yes moms) who cannot RSVP timeously? Get the invite, decide if you like the child enough to go, check your diary, make a decision, rsvp – easy as shite.
I supply an email and a cell number, so in no way does the person actually have to speak to me. You can sms or email me anytime. Even at 2 am.
Really, just a “howzit, see you at the party” or “howzit, sorry won’t be at the party” – less than 144 characters, decision, push and send response should use up less time than it takes you to change a tampon.
But, each and every birthday party is the same shite. Send invites. Make it very clear in the best possible language you would appreciate it/love it/offer free blow.jobs if they just rsvp by the date you have indicated.
Usually in bold uppercase, and if you are feeling slightly pissy then you would add italics as well – I have considered attached a LCD light so the date and time that I am begging for an rsvp for flashes. Repeatedly.
Even with all of this more than 1/2 the stupid and rude parents do not rsvp.
So, I am stuck wondering if they are just not “rsvp people” and I should still plan for them to be there – you know cover the cost per child, order a party pack and all that, as if they arrive.
It is not the parent who is going to feel like a right chop, but the kid who is going to stand there like “orphan annie with no party to go to” as I go “hey what I surprise, did not realise you were coming, errrrr…………..” , or do I assume that they are “not rsvp people” an dnot coming, but are just rude as fk not to tell me.
Am I the only person this happens to?
Should I take this as a personal slight? Are my children that unpopular, that parents do not RSVP in the hope that they hold out to see if they get a better invite for the same day?
Every year this crap annoys me, and this year is no less annoying.
Next year Georgia/Isabelle/Connor will be having a “take my two best” friends to a movie and a lunch – pick two friends, and bring them, that is all.
Fk this dozen kids shit.
Do I sound a bit annoyed? You have no idea!!! Just RSVP for cheese and rice, what the hell is wrong with you?
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