My daughter is 7 and showing no signs of being pushed forward 11 grades, so with that in mind my thinking about Matric Dances now might have an entirely differently perspective as my daughter is in Grade 1, versus when she is sitting in Grade 12 and I have Matric Dance Intoxication Fever!
I was sitting at the hairdresser (yes I appreciate how suburbs that sounds) – at a certain point no matter who much shampoo I lather on it still looks like crap, so I need to bring a qualified person and professional help.
I was sitting there and the lady sitting next to me is explaining how she and a few friends had clubbed together and “sponsored” a student’s matric dance dress.
I smiled as I sipped my tea, and thought what a great idea – I mentally started wondering how I could do that, you know find 4 like minded people and throw a few rand towards a girl’s dress from Truworths and some blingy shoes. PROJECT my inner voice screams – clapping hands simultaneously, so exciting.
I nearly spat on the GHD emblazoned mirror when she (the person sitting next to me, sorry did not catch her name) said that they were presented with a bill for R5 000.00 – for JUST THE DRESS!
A girl who cannot afford a dress, went to a store that sells dresses for R5 000.00 and thought hey that’s okay for my sponsors First off, I think this girl is either not doing well at Grade 12 “Life Skills” or needs a slap against the side of the head, or a bit of both actually.
Then I started wondering how much money are parents spending on Matric dance dresses and Matric suits for boys?
I get that it is a big day, but my concern is that as parents you are sitting there and putting down 2 months bond payments on junior miss or junior mister to have a cool party and a snappy outfit. The idea of reasoning with a hormonal whiny desperately-needing-peer-approval child seems like something a bit alarming.
I can’t recall matric dances being this big a deal back when I went. Back in my day, we spent R150.00 on a dress, borrowed shoes from your aunt, and did your own hair and makeup.
When exactly did matric dances turn into the extravaganza which they appear to be now – and more importantly if they do cost as much as I am thinking, then am I the only one who is having a serious sit down with my child in grade 10 and explain that they have 2 years (or more if they fail) to save towards their matric dance. What ever they save, I will match – and that is the limit of what they have to spend in total for the entire day.
But my daughter is in Grade 1 and my son is in Grade 4 – I have a few years yet before this is really is a big issue in my world. But seriously how much money are parents spending at the moment?
I saw this image on Super Mom and had to laugh (and cry a bit) as I think I had a very similar matric dress ….
I remembered this from Cat’s Juggling Act of Life Blog that she posted some time back - and this makes me smile sort of lopsided every time I see it …. crikey, it is all sorts of wonderful … who knew you could get a dress, stockings and shoes to match that perfectly … GO CAT!!!
Promise to dig mine out – I need to get them scanned in as it was a bit before digital or CDs actually ……