Priv is 37 weeks this Friday, and I am petrified for her.
I have stood on my head and called as many people as I could, but there was very little in the way of her being able to get her into a hospital and confirm that if she arrives at 02h00 with amniotic fluid dripping out of her ya-hoo she can get immediate attention. or at least be in the right queue.
Basically the system is she goes to a clinic. The clinic then refers her to a day hospital, the day hospital in turn then refer her to a hospital who can then deliver the baby.
It really is a long winded process, and it sort of explains clearly why babies are delivered on the road side or in taxi’s.
Please bear in mind she cannot go to the day hospital unless she is referred by the clinic.
Priv is 37 weeks, and she is still having to haul arse to the day clinic once a week. I am sort of trying to understand that this is the system and everyone should wait their turn.
I am trying to be reassured by this. That assuming there is nothing seriously the matter, she can stand in a queue at the clinic whilst in labour, and wait for them to refer her to the day hospital, and then stand there and wait until they refer her to the hospital … assuming she has not actually delivered the baby whilst standing in the queue.
Again I am trying very hard to be patient, and not get my white suburban madam knickers in a knot, but here is the part where I am alarmed.
Every time she goes to the clinic, they look at her foetal assessment scan which she had at 24 weeks, and make a judgment from there. They have not felt her stomach, have no idea if the baby is standing on her head or doing cartwheels – no idea.
I took her to the foetal assessment centre as she only realised she was pregnant at +22 weeks and had no pre-natal care at that point.
The scan the clinic is looking at is 13 weeks old, and at this point her baby could have done a somersault, moved in furniture and gone out for a curry.
I am so frustrated with this process I want to scream.
I have tried to call everyone to try and ensure she gets some indication of proper care – I really do not want Priv to find out there is a problem after she has been in 48 hours of labour and has to catch a taxi to the hospital after being left sitting on a wooden bench at the clinic for the last two days.
There is no end to the amount of “being bounced” that is a continual theme of dealing with the government health system.
I made another appointment for her tomorrow at the foetal assessment centre – if they are going to work off an old scan, let them at least have something that might indicate the baby is in her stomach and which way it is facing, and that she is actually still in there.
Screaming in frustration!!