Saw this on Facebook –
The “You Don’t Say Campaign” seeks to raise awareness around the misuse of language that relates to the LGBTQ community and gender issues. These words dehumanize and marginalize many within the Duke community and beyond and it is important to understand why.
Our Goal: Foster dialogue on the intersection of language and gender and sexual identities.
Words mean something. Think Before You Talk.
There is a line between us being so politically correct with our speech that we will eventually not be able to say anything without offending someone, and being aware of the power of our words and being consciously aware of the words we use.
And that the meaning and the emotional value of the word might be something we do not realise because for what ever reason we have become desensitised to it, or possibly we just do not realise the sheer weight of some of the words and phrases we use in every day life.
I recall using the word “Nigger Balls” for those large black sweets that you purchase from the shop at 5 cents a sweet, and suck them for about three months.
I have no idea where the word came from – but it was the “phrase” that was acceptable, and as a child it was the words I used. I only stopped using it because I no longer ate the sweets, and it came back to me when my kids started asking for the same sweets – they refer to them as jawbreakers.
I did not “think” about the phrase “Nigger Balls” at the time – I did not find it offensive.
It is an offensive phrase.
Sometimes someone needs to point it out to the user, because we do not always “hear” what we are saying – and do not always realise the impact of what we are saying – and the damage our words do.
Or the stereotypes that we continue to propagate because we are using “common acceptable terms.”
I have a son and two daughters.
It seriously does my head in when someone tells my son “don’t cry like a girl” or “you throw like a girl” or what ever the other things are that people say, which degrades and undervalues girls as somehow not being “as good” as boys.
I encounter these “girls are weak, but pretty” and “boys are strong, and must hide their emotions” every day —-
I like this campaign ……
Please visit their facebook page – https://www.facebook.com/youdontsayduke?fref=photo
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Have a good weekend, where ever it may take you!